I know I don't know you, but I saw this in the new posts that you see when you first log in to D A and I had to say something. You shouldn't be putting yourself down for anything. We're all human and we all make mistakes. If I were to count all the things I've done in my life, then I should be an insane asylum resident by now! I'm sure you're extremely intelligent, and just believe in yourself. And stop putting yourself down! You're no different then the next person! And the hell with anyone who doesn't support you! There I had my say lol

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When it comes to Love, it doesn't know age, race or gender!
You can't tell your heart who it can and can not Love! It doesn't work that way!

thank you that you care so much!
really, i said it without thinking and didn't think that somebody could think (think think think .... XD) i have an inferiority complex, in fact it's rather the opposite. But well my problem is :
i love to laugh and many people can't stand being laughed at and the the most are so self-centered that they think everything you say in general is about them, so i just have to laugh about myself XD (at least i know i can take it for sure!)
but really sometimes life has surprises that are atonishing! (and that were one for sure!!)

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p.s. i'm not a 'little perv'!!!!
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i'm a really really really nice, pure,honest and BIG BIG PERV

You're right, I do care, and I know people like me are hard to find in this world. But still like I said above, you shouldn't be putting yourself down or try to be something or do something to please others. The People that matter and are really your friend will like you for who you are, and accept you for who you are. The ones who don't, aren't the people you want in your life. That's why I had to say something here, cause you seem like a really awesome person, and I don't like to see awesome people feel as though they have to grovel and apologize to idiots for who they are. I sure hope if I do anything else is that I help you to get past your inferiority complex and believe in yourself for the awesome person that I'm sure you are.

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When it comes to Love, it doesn't know age, race or gender!
You can't tell your heart who it can and can not Love! It doesn't work that way!

so if i got that right you still think i have an inferiority complex and that i like to laugh about me is just a lame excuse for humiliating myself in order to please others?
So now my question: where does being down-to-earth end and an inferiority complex start?
Or maybe i wrote it on purpose so that people tell me i am not stupid, but that would mean i am narcissistic, wouldn't it?
And if everybody lives like you said: as 'who they are', would they then be able to move forward? Would the world be able to move forward? Or wouldn't we have died out in the Stone Age, because the people lived in their own, self-centered world? (humans who are really able to accept somebody as he is are in my opinion to rare, but maybe that would change to if only more tried?)

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p.s. i'm not a 'little perv'!!!!
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i'm a really really really nice, pure,honest and BIG BIG PERV

OMG! I just reread what you said about the inferiority complex and I misread what you said about it. God! I'm so sorry Now see who the real stupid one is here? (Pointing to myself) Anyway I guess I am a rarity because I do accept everyone for who they are. And I guess I always expect others to do the same.

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When it comes to Love, it doesn't know age, race or gender!
You can't tell your heart who it can and can not Love! It doesn't work that way!

it's okay i don't really mindXD(but i love discussing and developing theories and ideas v_v so i got kinda carried away ^^' )
but really i think it's great you're able to do that! I try but i think i still have to get older XD (i'd often love to kick other people asses because they seem to be too slow, fast, stupid or whatever *has no patience* )

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p.s. i'm not a 'little perv'!!!!
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i'm a really really really nice, pure,honest and BIG BIG PERV

Don't worry it has nothing to do with Age. It's who you are. A lot of people even people my age are like you are. So getting older really has nothing to do with how you are. And you should never change who you are just to please others. This is why I have Friends from real young to real old because I accept People and get to know People for who they are as people. Not by how old they are or there race or religion. I get called perv and pedo all the time because I talk to People and have Friends way younger then me. That's the reason for my signature here. And you didn't get carried away to me. You were just saying how you felt

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When it comes to Love, it doesn't know age, race or gender!
You can't tell your heart who it can and can not Love! It doesn't work that way!

i don't know how old you are and i don't really care XD
but i have a question, you say i don't have to change myself so, what is if i WANT to change myself? Maybe to make the ones i love happier? Of course they love me the way i am and so on... Got what i want to say?

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p.s. i'm not a 'little perv'!!!!
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i'm a really really really nice, pure,honest and BIG BIG PERV

Thank You so much! You don't know how happy I am to have finally found someone who is actually really smart! Well in answer to your question I would say that if you want to change certain things about yourself, it should be things that you yourself want to change. Just hopefully it would be for the better and not for the worse. But like I said it should be because you yourself want to change it. Not just to please someone else. Including those you Love. But like you said those who truly Love you will always Love you no matter what. That they already Love you for you and who you are. But you should never do it to please someone else. That's how I feel. It should be your decision and what you want.

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When it comes to Love, it doesn't know age, race or gender!
You can't tell your heart who it can and can not Love! It doesn't work that way!